Who We Love

January 20th, 2012

For some reason I woke up thinking about the terms homosexual and heterosexual.  (It could be the dream I had in which I was a prostitute in an old west brothel, but it doesn’t seem related, not really….)

I thought that, in order to shake things up and get people out of the pre-conceived ruts of these old terms, that we could start referring to someone’s sexuality in terms of who they are attracted to… (to whom they are attracted..?  oh, you know….)

Since basically there are men and there are women, it felt like there need be only two terms.  Mascu-phile and femi-phile might work, something like that–I like that it uses the root “phile” but these are pretty awkward.

And then I realized that this doesn’t take into account people who don’t want sex of any kind.  Nor does it acknowledge people who are transvestites or who have transformed themselves from one sex to another (if they want that nod; I don’t know how I would feel about it but I’m sure it’s a pretty huge moment in one’s life).

Well, mostly I was hoping to come up with a way to take away any old baggage from the current standards.  I also thought we could have fewer terms, but then, as I suspected in the beginning, perhaps the solution is to give up labels altogether.

To steal a term from Wende, we could simply call ourselves “omnisexual”, opening the conversation to a deeper level of getting to know each other.

Whatever way you swing, or not, enjoy yourselves!  This life is amazing, isn’t it?



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